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10 Tips : Talking about sexuality with your child with developmental disabilities

SESA - Spring '02 Reference Shelf - Sexuality and Puberty

  • Use as many pictures as you can. Photos of family or friends can be a springboard for talking about relationships and social interactions.
  • Use repetition with small amounts of information spaced out over time.
  • Make a full body chart. This is a concrete way to show where body parts are and what they do.
  • For more involved tasks (i.e., personal care during menstruation), try to break down the activity into several steps. Review the steps often and provide feedback and praise.
  • Practice! Provide practice situations for your child to try out their skills.
  • Use all available resources: visit the library, use the Internet, and access books and videos about talking to your kids about sexuality.
  • Network with other parents. Share your insights and listen to theirs.
  • Recognize and validate your child’s feelings: this is a unique opportunity to get to know them better.
  • Don’t be afraid to say "I don’t know the answer to that question," but be sure to follow up with "Let’s find out together!"
  • No one approach is best. As a parent, you have the opportunity to investigate, experiment, be creative and learn from your successes and mistakes.
Permission to reprint granted by Planned Parenthood of Tomkins County, Ithaca, NY; Web site: http://www.sextalk.org.

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